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So off they go to try and achieve their set goals and unable to achieve them successfully, yet powerless to do anything about it. The system or the senior level of management has let them down. And when this happens time and time again,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it is a very demoralizing experience for the Manager involved.
5. Don’t just criticize any goals or plans or instructions that have been handed down for you to carry out without providing sound reasons and examples of why it doesn’t work, or won’t work, and perhaps hasn’t worked in the past. List alternative courses of action that you believe will work and ask for permission to try them. Where possible, show evidence of where and how your suggestions have worked and why they will work in your current situation. Show the organization the benefit to them of implementing YOUR strategies rather than the ones they have designed. And don’t dismiss the possibility that maybe senior management does know something you don’t, and maybe once they enlighten you, you will feel differently about everything!
It’s great to see many companies are now acknowledging that the old, traditional methods of management are not effective and they are modernizing their strategies and taking steps to improve employee morale, and therefore productivity. CEO’s are taking an active interest because they have to and senior managements all over the world are issuing new guidelines and goals to their middle management to initiate.
Too often they are told they are not in a position to “know”, and to just do as they are told, which is a shame, really, because they are in a position to know. They may not know what plans are discussed in the boardroom, but they do know whether the plan is working or has a hope to work in real life, or at the very least, be able to identify trouble spots where some tweaking of plans would be ideal.
This situation can occur in both large and small organizations. It occurs in very large organizations, because usually a more authoritarian style of management tends to be used. In this situation, middle managers are expected to do as they are told and not question their superiors. However, larger organizations who train their managers in a more participative style of management and who practice open communication and the expression of ideas are happy to find this system works.
So, does the middle manager assertively argue with his senior management and risk his or her position and possibly jeopardize his own career goals within the organization? Nobody wants to rock the boat if it means their job is on the line,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or they’ll be ostracized, even if they know they could save the company thousands in mis-spent dollars on initiatives which are poorly designed. And there are those in senior management who simply don’t want to be “shown up” by a lower level manager who may just know ‘better’ than they do… so reports and advice are not passed on. Middle Managers are humored and sent on their way.
Senior level management need to take more notice of the Managers below them. Listen to them and their suggestions; include them at your around table discussions and forward planning sessions. It may save your company thousands of wasted hours and dollars, and if nothing else, will improve your middle management’s morale and their own level of productivity!
The trouble has always been, and continues to be, that in some very large organizations, senior level management are too far removed from the real day-to-day operations to know what is going on, let alone what will and will not work. When something fails, rather than admit the plan was bad, blame is laid at the middle Manager’s feet. It must be his fault – couldn’t possibly be our excellent plan!
So, what can a Manager do? There are courses of action one can take, some of which involve jumping off the deep end with their eyes closed – a leap of faith, and some which are just plain old common sense approaches.
4. Maybe you can put it in a report and present it if a verbal presentation is out of the question. Or maybe you can organize a private chat with an influential senior level Manager, or the CEO, and have a heart to heart. Maybe the problem is with your own immediate manager. That’s a common scenario. You could try providing your immediate manager with a written report and copy it in to the CEO, and that way, whether your own manager is dismissive or not, you know the CEO is finally going to hear/read what you have to say.
CEO’s and senior managements accept that low morale among their workforce means low productivity, which in turn, means low profits. Smart companies are hiring Coaches and Consultants to turn this around – everyone wants a happy workforce with improved productivity and profits. Some companies are trying other methods. But whatever method is being used, it still falls on Middle Management’s shoulders to implement. They are in a unique position to see what isn’t working, what won’t work, why it isn’t or won’t work, and what adjustments could and should be made that would make it work.
What can a middle Manager do in this situation? When he has an idea he knows will work better, but his own senior management won’t even do him the honor of hearing it? He knows the instructions he’s been given are going to be a waste of time, mostly his time, and there isn’t anything he can do about it because those who make the decisions higher up, simply don’t want to listen.
6. Then there are those who admire managers who are willing to take risks. But it’s a fine line between showing initiative and insubordination. To deliberately disregard a directive from your own senior manager and implement your own plan which you believe will work (and his won’t) takes more than just courage. If you are wrong, your job and your reputation are on the line. Of course, if you are wildly successful, even the CEO will sing your praises (although there will always be some slight concern about your willingness to toe the line!)
In some organizations, middle management are not expected to make certain ‘executive’ decisions and their level of authority and responsibility is low. They are just a link in the chain of command. Some managers are happy to be here – they can safely ‘pass the buck’ upline. Many managers at this level are too scared to make decisions or instigate their ideas for change for fear of negative repercussions in the form of losing one’s job, or chances for promotion.
3. If you are really fed up, whether you decide to be assertive and speak up or not, maybe you should speak to a Career Coach or look for a new job. If your income is the sole income that your family depends on, maybe you should also start putting some aside for the possible eventuation that one day, you may be out of a job and need several months worth of savings to live on until you find new employment. If you never need to use these funds, the little nest egg you’ve saved will always come in handy for other things.
This brick wall is familiar to many Managers. They’re too scared to speak up too loudly because their family’s welfare and the family home (mortgage) are often riding on his/her permanent paycheck arriving each month. He can’t afford to rock any boats. Meanwhile, his own boat is sinking and the Captain has left the ship to play golf.
If the bottom line employee is the one getting his or her hands dirty, it’s middle management who has the task of instructing and overseeing the way in which their hands are dirtied. They receive their instructions from those at the top,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which is not always the best place to be if you want a clear understanding of what is happening at ground level. Middle Managers who attempt to enlighten them often find themselves doing the equivalent of banging their head against a brick wall.
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It is frustrating for middle managers when their senior management, the CEO, and the Board members,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], expect them to carry out reforms and oversee changes that are designed to make improvements,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but may be misguided and miss their mark.
It occurs in smaller companies because unlike the larger companies who can at least afford to hire experts to help them, smaller companies rely on their existing resources and their own board of directors. On the plus side, smaller companies find it easier to adopt a team spirit and engage in teamwork – which involves the middle manager,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], naturally, but all is not necessarily plain sailing if there are personality clashes or the company has limited funds to bring in outside experts and instead,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], consider themselves to be the experts.
2. If you are the type of middle Manager who does care and who is getting a headache from the way the system operates, you can lay it on the line with your senior Management and just tell them like it is – politely, of course. If you strongly believe doing this would be detrimental to your career within the company,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], then you need to think carefully about this first. Feel your way; find a pair of friendly ears – someone must be willing to listen to you and help you champion your case. If not, is your career really likely to suffer,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and if it is, can you live with that or do you have a contingency plan?
1. A Manager can continue to do what is always done and the organization will not achieve anything worthwhile. If you are the type of Manager who doesn’t particularly care, just so long as his gets his/her pay check each month, then there isn’t a problem for you.
Sadly, for some of them,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], their senior management, CEO’s and Boards of Directors don’t listen. Sometimes, when a middle manager tries to express his view about a new strategy or goal,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], senior management can sometimes close their ears. After all, what would this middle manager know? If he was so smart,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he’d be “one of us”. They may listen just to humor him, but they have their plan of action, and really, they just want him to carry out orders and toe the line.
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If a compromise cannot be reached, know when to say ‘no.’ Don’t treat a deal like your very life depended on it. If you can show the customer that you are able to walk away from a potential sale, then you hold power over them. Believe it or not, they will respect you more for it and may even return to do business in the future. Buyers won’t want to deal with overeager sellers who fall apart so easily and try too hard to please.
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Roberta tragically lost her father in a freak accident when she was eighteen years old. Her mother took the reins and controlled Roberta’s life by making her stay at home and work for the family business, rather than going off to college as planned. To escape her mother’s firm grip, Roberta married at the age of twenty and began her family. Five children later Roberta found herself depressed and lonely, although she loved her family. She neglected herself except on rare occasions and secretly felt like a failure. When her ‘baby’ was about to go off to the college of her dreams, Roberta finally decided to get some outside help. Over time she realized that she had traded in her mother for a controlling husband. Her winkf-esteem was damaged, but salvageable. Roberta needed to become aware of her inner feelings around loss and neglect and find her true voice. In addition, she had to learn how to create healthy boundaries with her husband and how to take better care of herself physically and emotionally.
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Our inner male and female sides are expressed on the outside as relationships. Often our longer and deeper relationships with an outer man or woman are a mirror of our own inner man or woman.
In every meeting with a man or woman, a conscious or unconscious comparison occurs with our own inner man or woman. If there is a comparison with our inner man or woman, we fall in love.
The right side of the body represents the male side and the left side of the body represents the female side. We all have both a male and female side, which is represented by the right and left side of the body.
Outer relationships with a man or a woman are a mirror of the relationship between our own inner man and woman. Embracing our own inner man and woman means to understand the inner drama that happens between our male and female aspects, which manifests on the outside as relationships.
Just as electricity needs both a negative and positive pole for a spark to arise, the human consciousness has also two poles. These two poles are the male and female side.
Relationships are a development and a dance between our inner male and female sides. It is a balance and a dance between love and freedom, between aloneness and relating, between strength and receptivity, between closeness and distance, between intellect and intuition, between relaxation and activity and between meeting and leaving.
When both the inner man and woman takes responsibility for themselves and lives their own truth,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a joy and love begins to flow naturally between them. Through understanding both the inner man and woman,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we understand that outer relationships simply mirror the relationship between our inner man and woman. This understanding gives us the opportunity to take conscious responsibility for our choices and our further steps towards spiritual maturity.
The heart is the door to our inner woman. The heart is the door to our inner world. The power chakra relates to the inner man. The power chakra relates to the outer world. Irrespective of if we are a man or a woman, the inner woman is the center of our consciousness.
When I meet a woman who matches my own inner woman, I notice that it creates a joy in my heart. It is the joy of recognition, a longing after inner wholeness between my own inner man and woman. It is the inner longing that the outer relationship will help us to reconnect the relationship between our inner male and female sides and makes us whole.
The inner woman is the source of healing. The inner woman is the source of silence. The inner woman is the source of love. The inner woman is the source of belongingness with life. Embracing the inner man and woman is to discover our inner roots and wings.
I have always been in contact with my own inner female side, which has also given me an understanding for woman. Now I also feel that I have developed a balance between my own male and female side. I feel that I have found a balance between, freedom and love, between love and relating, between strength and receptivity,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], between silence and activity and between intellect and intuition. When we embrace the opposites within ourselves and understand that inner harmony arises when they mature, we find the love, joy, silence and freedom that are hidden in every moment. It is my experience that it is through the inner female side that we find the depth within ourselves – independent of if we are a man or a woman. It is through the female side that we find the inner source of love and truth. It is through the female side that we lit the light of our own consciousness. The more we learn to know the inner man and woman and the more we accept their different visions of life,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the more a meeting happens between them that makes us happy and satisfied. Through embracing both these sides in ourselves, we realize that we really lack nothing – but that we already are love. When both the male and female side is capable of living in trust, a love begins to flow between them – a love that was always possible,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but not realized. The inner woman is the meditative quality within ourselves. The inner woman is the source of love and truth. The inner woman is the capacity to surrender to life. It is through the inner woman that we are in contact with life. It is the inner woman that is the door to belongingness with the Whole.
Outer relationships are a mirror of the relationship and communication between our own inner male and female sides. Outer relationships with a man or a woman are a possibility to understand our own inner man or woman.
The basic problem with the world today is the unbalance between the male and female aspects, the unbalance between our inner and outer world, the unbalance between knowledge and wisdom, the unbalance between intellect and intuition and the unbalance between activity and rest.
When we have developed a trust in both our inner man and woman and they can nourish, support, communicate and cooperate with each other, a love begins to flow between them.
When I studied psychology at the University, a woman in the class of becoming psychologists said once that she thought that I was the only man in the class that did not despise woman. I have always loved and respected my inner woman,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which have also created a genuine love for woman on the outside. In fact, I started my own psychological development process through developing my inner woman and then I developed my inner man.
It is when our inner male and female sides meets within ourselves that a new spark of love, joy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and wholeness arises within ourselves.
When both the inner man and woman takes responsibility for themselves and lives their own truth, a joy and love begins to flow naturally between them. Healing means to develop the inner man and woman so that love can flow between them. Healing is to learn to love both our inner man and woman. It is to learn to live the truth of both the inner man and woman. I have always been in contact with my inner woman.
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In this way our outer relationships becomes a possibility to develop and integrate our inner man and woman in the relationship with an outer man or woman,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. In this way the outer relationships creates a possibility to learn to love both our outer partner and our own inner male and female side. It is when we develop both our inner man and woman that we find a new harmony and wholeness within ourselves. Healing means to develop and integrate our inner man and woman so that love can flow between them.
A one-sided development of our female side leads to dependence and passivity. It is when we have developed a balance and harmony between both our male and female side that a new spark of joy, creativity and wholeness arises within ourselves.
Becoming aware of our inner man and woman means to discover the roots and creative potential of both the male and female aspect within ourselves. Becoming aware of the inner man and woman means to understand that they have different visions of life. It means to understand that they have different perspectives and views of life. The inner man and woman are our two wings of love and freedom. Through awareness, acceptance and understanding, we can allow our two wings to develop in a deep and natural harmony. In the world today, a one-sided development of the male side leads to destructivity. A one-sided development of the male side leads to ego, struggle,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], exhaustion and a separation from life. A one-sided development of the female side leads to passivity and dependence. How does the inner man and woman relate to money, creativity and financial abundance? Existence is abundance.
What are the inner man and woman? Our being consists of two energies: the male and female aspect. Irrespective of if we are a man or a woman, we have both a male and female side.
Love means to understand the drama that happens between the inner man and woman. It means to allow both the inner man and woman to find their creative roots and expression.
Relationships are a development and a dance between our inner male and female sides. A one-sided development of the male side leads to ego, struggle, destructivity and a separation from life.
To rediscover our own inner source of love, we need to embrace both the male and female sides within ourselves. When these two sides are developed and integrated, a new spark of love, joy, harmony, creativity and wholeness arises within us. Awareness is an inner harmony between opposite poles and tendencies.
Through becoming aware of how the inner man and woman relates and communicates inside ourselves, it creates a joy and satisfaction in the three life areas that they influence: our meditation and inner growth, our relationships and our work and creativity.
The inner man is the periphery of our consciousness. It is also the inner man that takes care of and protects the inner woman for example through putting up creative boundaries. The meeting between a man and a woman on the outer plane creates a relationship. This relationship is not a conflict, but they complement each other. The outer meeting between a man and a woman also creates integration between our own inner male and female sides.
Often we are identified with either the inner man or woman,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], while the other side is hidden and unexpressed. Outer relationships are a mirror of the relationship and communication between our own inner man and female side. Sometimes one side is dominant, while the other side is submissive.
Traditionally men have created a deep split between the inner and outer world, between body and soul, between the material and spiritual world, between love and money and between male and female qualities. The inner man and woman are related to money, creativity and financial abundance. Through investigating the roots of the inner man and woman, we can find the creative potential of both the inner man and woman. Sometimes can either the inner man or woman also provide financial support for both sides,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], while the other side has the idea that it cannot support itself financially.
Life develops through opposite poles and tendencies for example yes and no, joy and sorrow, light and darkness, positive and negative, day and night and life and death.
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Now for some examples of my favorite Pluto aspect: contacts with Venus, the Planet of love. When these two planetary energies synergize positively there is the potential for great transformational power through the sexual act. The astrologer Jeanne Avery called this the courtesan/high priestess axis—which could also be activated through Pluto in the 7th or 8th houses or having Scorpio ruling there.
Catherine Zeta-Jones and Antonio Banderas have this Pluto/Venus conjunction. Hothothot! Then there’s Starhawk with the conjunction in the 11th house for some good witchy goddess energy. Xaviara Hollander, the Happy Hooker, has this conjunct the north node of destiny in the 3rd house—so she was really being true to herself through her vocation, as was the Sydney Biddle, the Mayflower Madam,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with this conjunction in the 9th house of publishing, so she wrote about her experiences too!
Casanova had Pluto opposing Venus and Mercury in the 5th house of romance, with Uranus rising on a Scorpio ascendant—how could he not be the archetypal master seducer, a man with 1000 faces, all of them wanting to seduce his next conquest?
Frank Sinatra had Pluto in the`1st house opposing Venus in the 3rd house, crooning was one of his methods of seduction.
Clyde Barrow, of Bonnie and Clyde fame, had Pluto/north node on the ascendant square Venus in the 10th house and became famous for the intermingling of sex and violence.
Jack Nicholson again, for Pluto in the 1st house square Venus in the 10th,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], known for being a legendary “love em and leave em” type.
What about if Pluto is squared or in opposition to the Sun? There’s Martin Luther King, with the opposition fighting the dark forces of segregation epitomized by the KKK with the power of his will.
And with Pluto square the Sun? There’s President Jimmy Carter fighting Khomeini in Iran,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Louis Pasteur fighting germs, and the investigative reporter, Seymour Hirsh, fighting to find out the truth.
That’s why buckling our seat belt for this ride is such a good idea. But what else can we do? I’m so glad you asked. We can own our inner Plutonian energies, as well as our Uranian (for more on this, please read: Embracing the Unexpected: Everything You Wanted to Know about Uranus but were Afraid to Ask). To integrate these energies in us as consciously as possible we need to accept the philosophy: as above, so below, as without, so within, or, in other words, we’re all microcosms of the Universe. Furthermore, to the degree that we can own and integrate our dark transformational power and shadow side within, to that degree will we not project it out onto the world or others. Judgment always creates separation, with which there is no possibility of unity consciousness. And the judgment starts with the disowning of our own Plutonian natures.
Now that Pluto is transiting the Saturnian and structure-ruling sign of Capricorn, between 2008 and 2024, we can expect to see a lot of structures on the Earth plane undergoing a similar process of transformation through cycles of death and rebirth. The last time Pluto was in Capricorn, we had the American Revolution, so that will give you some idea of the energies we’re dealing with.
Added to this, Uranus, the trickster planet of change, is forming an ongoing series of seven squares or challenges to Pluto through 2015, beginning in June and September of 2012. So we can expect times of explosive dissolving of structure just about everywhere and just about at any time.
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The truth is that power, in and of itself, is neither light nor dark—it’s just energy. And we all have a free will choice as to how to use this energy. Based on the chakra system, there are seven levels of power: spiritual power, psychic power, communication power, heart power, ego power, sensual and creative power, and survival power.
Those of us who have innate Plutonian energy—whether it be through the Sun, Moon or Ascendant in Scorpio or conjunct Pluto—will be less likely to be OK with having a calm relatively simple on the surface life and relationships. Pluto and Scorpio-types like to go as deep below the surface of everything as possible.
Some of us are born true Plutonians. This means we have active contacts with Pluto and the angles in our chart or personal planets—Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, or Mars—or that we have one or more of our personal planets in Scorpio. Others manifest their Pluto energy with a loaded up or Scorpio-ruled 8th house which covers the realms from sex and death to metaphysics.
When Pluto transits oppose or square our personal planets, it can feel as if it is all outside forces that are ganging up on us. But, even if it is not all truly projection—at least in the smaller picture in this plane of duality—it is still better to try to use all the situations seemingly against us as a form of spiritual resistance training, pushing us to use challenging circumstances for our growth and thus strengthen our commitment to the next level of our evolution.
In closing,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], cultivating a taste for intensity has many levels. The ultimate intensity being absolute reality which can be terrifying, but at the same time makes us feel the most fully alive. Sexual orgasm, the little death, gives us a taste of this annihilation of the little winkf in the Void, as do many other Tantric and Taoist practices.
I hope these examples give you a feel for Pluto/Scorpio energy in the birth chart. And what’s most important to remember is that we ALL have Pluto in our charts, meaning we all have a dark/shadow side. And sooner or later, we will ALL have Pluto transits that activate our Plutonian transformational power. When that happens, the more prepared we are to choose right use of this power, the less potential for incurring karma against ourselves and others. We do this by doing conscious work to own and transmute all parts of our being—including the most secret—through the heart and into the Light.
Greta Garbo, with Pluto on the ascendant in Gemini: mysterious, hypnotic, secretive and craving solitude (except on her terms).
Mario Napoli—four time international martial arts champion—with Pluto on the Ascendant in Leo, who said of himself—“I’m king of the world” HA!
Mae West, withf Pluto and Neptune in the 1st house, could not just walk her talk, she could give you a running commentary: “Is that a banana in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?” If Mars is the sexual act, than Pluto is the orgasm, the “little death” bringing up fear of annihilation. Powerfully sexual women can be terrifying—epitomized perfectly by the archetypal Plutonian energies of the Goddess, Kali, known as the Devourer (of men, among other things).
Elizabeth Clare Prophet, with Pluto on the ascendant: “Armageddon is coming!” Oh, pleeze
Jack Nicholson, with Pluto on the ascendant, “You want the truth, but you can’t handle the truth!”
Bernard Kerik, with Pluto on the ascendant from the 12th house of secrets, was the potential director of homeland security? NOT! Too many dark secrets there.
Uma Thurman, with Pluto conjunct the south node in the 1st house, starring in Kill Bill, perfectly karmically cast as an assassin.
Truman Capote, with Pluto on the ascendant from the 12th house and with Mars conjunct the south node in the 8th house, exploring dark themes like In Cold Blood, writing eerily like he had been present at the scene.
Yasser Arafat, with Pluto and Venus conjunct the ascendant in Cancer: “I come bearing an olive branch in one hand, and the freedom fighter's gun in the other. Do not let the olive branch fall from my hand.”
Madame Blavatsky, with Pluto on the Midheaven, ruling her public image through the teachings of theosophy.
What about Pluto when it’s on the descendant or in the 7th house of partnership? Jim Morrison, with Pluto conjunct the north node in Leo on the descendant, “Come on baby light my fire.”
Now, for some examples of the potentially most scary contacts: Pluto and Mars, the planet of War and Aggression:
Harry Houdini, with Mars/Pluto at the nadir—famous for his death defying stunts.
Nureyev, with Pluto square Mars in the fifth house of creativity and romance trine his sun—famous for his dancing and romancing.
Arnold Swarzenegger, with Pluto in the 12th house of secrets opposing his Sun and Moon and squaring Mars.
Muhammad Ali, with Pluto in the 12th house in a grand cross with a square to Mars in the 6th house of health (Parkinson’s), a square to Jupiter in the 10th, winning the world championship,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and opposing the Sun and Moon.
Malcolm X, with Pluto/Mars in the 7th house.
Angelina Jolie, with Pluto opposing her Moon/Jupiter/Mars in the 9th house of film in Aries, trine her Sun—and we can’t take our eyes off of her—but also sense her dangerous quality which is perhaps why she is so mesmerizing.
Machiavelli, with Pluto square Mercury, Pluto opposing Mars in the 2nd house of the personal value system, writer of political books such as The Prince and seven volumes on The Art of War.
And last, but certainly not least in this category, Osama Bin Laden, with Mars/ascendant/south node in Taurus square a retrograde Pluto, indicating past life issues with violence that he is attached to for his identity as well as karmic misuse of power.
If expressed positively, the Pluto/Venus contacts can be experienced as transcendental through using the sexual energies—especially through Taoist or Tantric practices—as a vehicle for spiritual transformation. With this aspect there can be a desire for annihilation of the little winkf through sexual union. And from this losing of winkf—this dispersal—there can then be experienced the finding of winkf, re-formed, renewed and made whole through this alchemical union—but with less attachment to the individual ego identity.
If one has a relatively unaspected (referred to as a singleton) Pluto, there’s a danger that one can project all their dark power out into the world. And don’t forget that our souls choose our birth charts as perfect vehicles for our karmic healing. (For more on this, please see: my article on LEELA) Taken to its extreme, one can then feel absolutely powerless against this projection. This sets up an unconscious victim mentality, which manifests as external events to re-entrench the limiting beliefs of powerlessness.
Many Neptunian and Piscean types tend to go this route and believe that they’re made up of only light energy and that dark power has nothing to do with them. I had one psychic therapy client, a Jungian psychoanalyst, who was writing a dissertation on “the shadow” but denied she had any darkness in her!
After we accessed her dark side through past-life regression therapy, she was able to own ALL of her power—and consciously transmute her shadowy Plutonian energies through the heart and commit to right use. Then, she became more whole and integrated—with no parts repressed, denied and compartmentalized. This process enables us to experience unity consciousness—as without, so within—with no judgment or separation and no need to project inner darkness out and experience it coming back at us.
We all do have a shadow side in us—some a lot more than others—as humans have had since the beginnings of time. But, since Pluto’s “discovery” in 1930, perhaps its more than a sign from the Higher Forces that it’s time to start owning all that we are—rather than projecting what we judge as not “all right” out into the world. As we at least try to find a balance of owning some of our Plutonian power, we’ll find that we won’t need to see the world projected on as too terrifying a place to ever feel safe in.
What about Pluto/Sun contacts?
There’s Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, with Pluto/Sun/north node in Cancer in the 10th house of vocation. Her mission was to create a whole new way of working with mourning, dying and death consciously and without fear.
Mick Jagger, with Pluto/Sun/Jupiter/Mercury/north node all in Leo at the nadir of the chart—the core of his being, singing: “Under my thumb”and "Sympathy for the Devil."
Madonna, with Pluto/Sun/Mercury in Leo in the 12th house of secrets, conjunct the moon in Virgo on the ascendant from 1st house: non-disclosure clauses and perfectionism for sure!
Here are some examples of Pluto/Jupiter contacts—and you can decide for yourself whether the creative power of transformation is operating at a level of misuse, (including being overly excessive), right use, or transcendent use:
Napoleon Bonaparte, with Jupiter in Scorpio rising, and Pluto opposing Venus in the 8th house of sex and metaphysics.
Picasso, a Scorpio, with Pluto/Jupiter/Neptune /Saturn in Taurus in the 10th house of his vocation.
Edgar Allan Poe, with Pluto/Jupiter/Moon/Venus in Pisces.
Sean Connery, with Pluto/Jupiter in the 7th house square Venus.
Robert DeNiro, with Pluto/Jupiter/sun/north node in Leo,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the actor’s sign: “You talkin to me?”
Martha Graham, with Pluto/Jupiter/Neptune in the 1st house, creating a new school of dance.
Ram Dass, with Pluto and Jupiter on the ascendant in Aries: “Be Here Now.”
Mel Gibson, with Pluto/Jupiter square Mars/Saturn in the 5th house—creative drive at odds with explosive internal pressures.
Marlon Brando, with Pluto opposing Jupiter in the 1st house (can tend to make one larger or larger than life) square Sun/Moon in Aries in the 5th house of creativity.
Albert Einstein, with Pluto square Jupiter, trining Mars.
Billy Graham, with Pluto/Jupiter opposing Moon/Mars.
Warren Beatty, with Pluto in 10th house opposing Jupiter.
Ava Gardner, with Pluto in 12th trine Jupiter and Mars—grand trine in water.
Bill Gates, with Jupiter/Pluto in the 2nd house of financial resources.
And for some egregious misuse: Jim Jones, of the Kool-Aid cult, Pluto/Jupiter in the 7th house.
And Saddam Hussein with Pluto opposing Moon/Jupiter.
PS The decision to downgrade Pluto to less than full planet status in 2006 will more than likely be overturned by 2015 when NASA’s investigation will be complete. In the meantime, all that this man-made error in judgment did (only 5% of astronomers voted for this demotion) was piss Pluto off. And we wouldn’t want that to go on indefinitely, would we?
For those of us who have a less active Plutonian profile natally—not to worry! We ALL get our Pluto and Scorpio natures activated sooner or later by progression and transit.
So if we can imagine a breakdown in financial systems causing a revolution in our political structures—that’s a pretty good prediction of what’s coming up, based on our most recent historical occurrences with similar planetary alignments.
If the powerful erotic energy of Venus/Pluto contacts is not owned by one who has it, it’s very common for it to be projected on to partners who then emanate this perhaps dangerous sexual power. An example of this is only being attracted to bad boys (or girls), assassins, sociopaths, outlaws, criminals, etc. Then, especially if these Pluto/Venus contacts are combined with Neptunian energies that if unevolved can create a fog of delusion—there can be power struggles, romantic abuse, violent patterns—and a desire to be “taken out” or owned by the partner. And if one’s Plutonian/Venusian/Neptunian energies are completely denied and unconscious, the desire to be possessed or annihilated can become quite literal.
What about Pluto/Moon contacts and the potentials for the emotions to be a vehicle for transformation? If these powerful energies remain unevolved there can be an unconscious infantile pattern of emotional hunger—and being around people like this feels like being around a bottomless pit of emotional/psychic vampire drainage—saying feedmefeedmefeedme. If this energy is unresolved, being pissed off at having no power to get fed can be expressed through regression, aggression or a mix of the two.
For example, Milosevic has Pluto/Moon and Chiron, the wounded part of himself, in the 4th house of his childhood. So if he’s pissed off and wounded, he’s going to make sure you are too. Then there’s Larry Flynt, with a Pluto/Moon conjunction in his 3rd house of communication. Enough said.
And finally, let’s look at some Pluto/north node of destiny contacts, signifying that the person is here in this life to come into their transformational power as part of their karmic direction and that the path of least resistance would be to give their power away.
Allan Ginsberg, with Pluto/north node in Cancer in the fifth house of creativity—he wrote the poem, “Howl.””
Marilyn Monroe, with Pluto/north node in Cancer in the 12th house of secrets.
Catherine Denueve, with Pluto/moon/north node in the 7th house of relationships, she was “The face of France.”
Sigmund Freud, with Scorpio rising, and Pluto/north node/Venus in the 6th house of the mind/body connection. How could his life’s work not revolve around Eros being at the root of human behavior?
Then, when Pluto conjuncted Saturn, the Lord of Karma, in 1945—BOOM! We dropped the first atomic bombs—or should I say plutonian bombs. Dropping a not so subtle hint that the power of Pluto, especially when it conjoins with the energies of the planet of structure, Saturn,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], packs a punch that is explosive, annihilating and destroys everything in its path down to dust . . . before anything new can arise from the ashes.
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Isadora Duncan, with Pluto/Mercury/Neptune/Sun conjunct in the 1st house, created a new school of dance.
Otto Von Bismarck, with Pluto/Mercury in Pisces in the 8th house.
Van Gogh, with Pluto/Mercury/Uranus/Saturn in the 11th house.
Marianne Williamson, with Pluto/Mercury in the 9th house of philosophy and higher truths.
And with Pluto square Mercury, feel the power of their words: Jesse Jackson and Machiavelli, with his Pluto in the 8th house squaring Mercury and opposing Mars.
Can you feel the difference when Pluto is square or opposed one’s Sun? It’s like there’s something outside of oneself one needs to fight against. This is how it can feel when one has transiting Pluto challenging one’s personal planets as well as in the natal chart. Finding out what transits are coming up helps us consciously prepare for going with the Flow and not feeling powerless or victimized, but rather empowered and inspired. (For more on this, please check out my website for: ASTROLOGICAL SERVICES)
The last time Uranus and Pluto squared off was in the beginning years of the Great Depression of the 1930’s when Uranus was last in Aries. Then, tens of thousands of homeless veterans camped out in Washington DC demanding a fair deal inspiring the New Deal to be launched. Sound familiar? And the last conjunction occurred in the 60’s when “power to the people” became the rallying cry for a generation followed by anti-war protests. Now, with the closing square, we’re experiencing the beginnings of the next level of this theme arising.
To give you a taste of Plutonian energy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], here’re some examples of just how strong a Scorpio rising or Pluto on the ascendant or in the 1st house can be. All will have some degree of a “don’t mess with me” energy and the piercing eyes emanating dark power that see beneath the surface.
Pluto/Neptune contacts indicate a strong ability to reach the masses for good or ill. Hitler and Speer are examples of the latter.
When Pluto activates us, whether through inner owning or outer transits, if we have already cultivated a taste for living on the razor’s edge between life and death—fear and excitement—then we can begin to feel like the ruler of our own internal underworld. Then Pluto can’t devour us by feeling like the forces of darkness are coming at one or the Void is rising up around one’s feet, because the Void and the darkness are already owned and residing within.
Pluto is the God of the underworld and, as we become the god or goddess of our own internal underworld,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we’ll find that this is the only path to true wholeness and integration. When we can dissolve duality and projection from the screen of our perception, we no longer need to fear Pluto eating us for lunch. But rather, we can enjoy knowing that we contain the whole Universe inside of us—arising out of the inner Void spontaneously in each moment—and that this Universe contains all that we have ever feared and all that we have been seeking.
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Here are some examples of more evolved Pluto/Moon contacts:
Mozart, with Pluto/Moon in Sagittarius.
Bjork, with Pluto/Moon/Sun in the 12th house.
The poet, Shelley, with Pluto/Moon in the 12th house.
Edgar Cayce, the sleeping prophet, with Pluto/Moon/Neptune in Taurus in the 10th house.
Bette Davis, with Pluto/Moon in Gemini in the 7th house, saying, with those eyes, “It’s going to be a bumpy ride” and you better believe it!
Carl Jung, with Pluto/Moon/Neptune in Taurus in the 3rd house, says: My life has been permeated by one goal—to penetrate the secrets of personality.”
And with Pluto and an Aries moon in the 8th house in opposition, everyone’s against him—in this case the church, but he must first be true to himself: Martin Luther.
The sign of Scorpio, ruled by Pluto, has three evolutionary stages: the scorpion, the eagle and the dove. We learn right use of power through misuse in the lower chakras/scorpion phase. Then, we learn to practice this right use of power by the development of the personal will expressed through the heart center in the eagle phase. Ultimately we can evolve to a place where the ego is transmuted completely through the higher centers and we become a channel for the Divine to use us as a transformational power for good as the dove.
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During the festive season, the world has a tendency to ignore moderation and celebrate with extremity. Whilst this is not a reason for recovering addicts to panic and become pessimistic and resentful towards their clean life and inability to join in with drinking and drugging, a sensible attitude coupled with a thoughtful and careful approach to the celebrations will help an addict in a Twelve Step help group survive the silly season clean and sober.
One of the best things an addict can do to remain abstinent from drugs whilst keeping their sanity during this time of year is to make preparations in case they find themselves struggling. For example, many recovering addicts attending work functions,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Christmas parties, family gatherings and so on are able to recognise when a situation may be dangerous,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], especially through discussing their plans with a sponsor (a more experienced member of the fellowship and Twelve Step help group) and if the situation is dangerous and they do have to attend,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], to formulate an “escape plan”.
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Another safety practice which addicts like to use is to make sure that they are always able to contact their sponsor or another trusted person in their life such as a fellow recovering addict. Small details such as making sure that their cell phones have air time to make calls and keeping in contact with other recovering addicts is vital. Attending meetings and working a thorough programme of recovery is also imperative to staying clean, even though this is valid all year round. For an addict in recovery,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], extra vigilance and an awareness of potential situations, people,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], places and emotions which could trigger a bad craving are what could save a life.
For many people in South Africa, the summer season (from October to March) is known as the silly season – a time when partying, over indulgence, relaxation and fun are normal occurrences. For recovering addicts and alcoholics in a Twelve Step help group however, this time of year can present an array of opportunities for relapse. The majority of recovering addicts do not come into contact with alcohol or drugs on a regular basis, so during the party season where many functions and gatherings have alcohol present and people over indulging,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the pressure can be immense.
It is important to emphasise that when a person is living a life clean of substances, they are far more responsible and productive than when they were using drugs and alcohol. This does not mean that they should become hermits and never experience any fun. Being in recovery enables an addict to be able to live a normal life again and those who hide away from society and the festivities during the silly season are not living a normal life and have missed the point of being in a process of recovery completely.
Many recovering addicts and alcoholics believe that a relapse is not an occurrence which simply ‘happens’. They believe that the person in question would have to be in a relatively unstable frame of mind for relapse to occur. However,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], even if a recovering addict is not in a vulnerable space, the Christmas season can present some incredibly difficult and tempting situations.
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